Words from the wise…
Romulus resident offers insights gained in 99 years of life experience
Florence Rupert is hesitant to offer life advice, but if convinced to do so, she will gently provide the benefit of her more than nine decades of experience. “Mind your own business, live a good life and try to be happy.”
Her counsel merits serious consideration as Rupert has seen both joys and sorrows during her near century of life. Rupert celebrated her 99th birthday last month and she and her family are looking forward to marking her centennial next Feb. 2.
Rupert has lived on Moore Street in Romulus for 95 years, first moving as a toddler with her parents Rachel (Lewis) and Oliver Wilson Sr. to the family home at 11238 Moore. She and her late husband, Jackson Rupert, moved to a home just a block away at 11095 Moore when the couple married in 1950. She still makes her home there today, helped by family members with daily routines.
Rupert has witnessed world-altering changes during her life including the speeding advances in technology and social norms.
The most significant, she said, affects the lives of women. “The changes for women, that women can vote, work outside the home…the number of choices they have,” are the most impactful advances she has experienced, she said.
As for technology, her introduction to the wizardry of electronics came decades ago with her first black and white television, after she was married. She said that later the microwave was the precursor to so many other electronic devices including cell phones and computers that have changed the world and daily lives.
Her world was markedly different from that of women today.
As a young housewife, Rupert’s priority was, like women of her generation, caring for her home and children. Her involvement outside her home included volunteering with the Parent Teacher Association (PTA) while her children attended elementary school in Romulus and helping to plan social events to raise funds for the school. She never learned to drive and depended on her husband and family for transportation. She never considered a job outside her home until her children were grown.
At that juncture of her life in the 1990s, she took a job working in the Romulus High School cafeteria while her granddaughters were students there. When they graduated, she retired but credits her time working outside her home as providing her one of her first opportunities to understand a changing society during outings with coworkers and friends.
Rupert’s life has included the sorrowful loss of five of her seven children and all six of her siblings. She is obviously a treasure to her remaining family members who help care for her. Her daughter, Mario, 73, lives with her and another daughter, Elaine, 70, who lives in Brownstown, are instrumental in helping her with daily tasks. One of the highlights of her days, Rupert said, are greatly anticipated lunches with her nieces. While the nieces would like to think she wants to be with them, sometimes it might just be about lunch at her favorite local restaurant, she confided.
Rupert’s age continues to surprise to those first meeting the vibrant woman with the beautiful complexion and the jovial laugh. Her health, her family said, is remarkable. She doesn’t wear glasses and her hearing remains sharp. She admits to taking vitamins and a “pill for my blood pressure” as her only medications.
Rupert was a lifelong member of Parks Memorial AME church until it closed following COVID in 2024. In her youth, the family regularly attended church, and she participated in youth activities and Sunday School. As an adult she sang in the choir, ushered on alternating Sundays, was a secretary for the church, helped to serve communion and was a member of Parks Memorial AME Sarah Waters Missionary Society.
Looking back on her life, Rupert said, she thought she might have become an evangelist, studying and discussing the Bible. The church was an important part of her life, she recalled.
Rupert was one of nine senior women of the Romulus community who were recognized at First Baptist Church during a morning worship service Sept. 18, 2022. Rupert continues to proudly display the trophy she was awarded during the “Showers of Love from God” event. The celebration honored the amazing lives of the elderly women, recognized their contributions in the Romulus community, and proved that their ordinary lives mattered, noted Rupert’s niece, Maria Holmes.
Rupert was also recognized by the City of Romulus with the approval of an honorary street sign with her name on the north end of Moore Street.
Holmes said her aunt is an inspiration and her family plans to celebrate every day with her until she officially marks her 100th birthday next year.
“From Feb. 2, 2026, to February 2027, she will be turning 100. This is something to celebrate,” Holmes said, “so why wait.”